One Life, One Time.

Are we taking the right path in our life? 

The question is not that easy, the way it sounds. This actually asks you whether you are travelling towards your goals which will give you life time happiness or are you chasing the short term goals. 

People are blindly going through the old books and leading a frustated life. They like something else but their actions are totally different. If you have completed your 18yrs in this planet, its high time to think what you want to do and what makes you actually happy. The definition of success is different for different people but finding the right track for themselves is very important. Sometimes the path will be very less crowded. Earning money shouldn’t be one’s target, living the life how they wanted to live should be the actual thing.  People highly choose those path which are highly crowded and even reaching at a very good position they never feel happy because they never feel satisfied. Its takes a lot of courage to choose your own path, decide what you want to become and how you want to live your rest of the life. If one is not satisfied with their work and life, one will never stay happy will end up getting frustrated.

I know its not easy to find out what you love and what you want to do for the rest of your life in one single day, it will take years. My advice: Ask your heart what or which things actually makes you feel happy and the rest will be answered by your brain.

The one who plays a guitar and sing songs in a restaurant is earning money as well as person who is going office in morning and comes back home at night is also earning money. But you know who is living the happy life. There is only one life, you are gonna live it only once.

#Onechance.

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Other than Engineering things. 

Other than engineering, career options are not only aligned to engineering and medical. There are ‘n’ no. Of career options, there are courses regarding psychology and masters in Dancing.  Business analyst is one of the quite upgrowing, successful and interesting courses one can study. Despite people knowing the streams which have been occupied with the maximum population. People go for the core branches and expecting the most and best jobs, yes there are but the number of quality jobs is quite less and for that you gotta be the best at your particular branch. Almost 1.5 million engineers graduate every year but still 60% are unemployed looking at the statistics of 2017. Yet knowing this statistical facts but people are still pursuing without looking at the figures. 

This blog is not regarding the de-merits of engineering but people pursuing what they actually want to pursue as their career option. In India people actually want the real content, the real content and documentation instead of the inspiration videos. 

Loneliness- Big disease to mankind.

Loneliness being one of the big disease but doesn’t count under any human problem. 7.6 billion human population on earth and still counting, out of which a large sum of population is still fighting against loneliness. The fast growing technological world is more concerned about technology and money rather than their people around them. People can go to doctors for any kind of operations or health problem but loneliness has never been considered under medical terms. People can actually go to psychiatric and talk about their loneliness and can make their doctor a good friend, instead people are more worried to be called mentally sick by the society. Loneliness is a big disease and should be taken seriously because it has led to suicides mostly in the teenager group and some population of working class. 

One might feel awkward calling their friend at mid-night and sharing his/her life story but you need atleast one person to tell each and everything about yourself. 

I maybe a total stranger to you but you are more than welcome to tell your part of your life, I am no one to judge you, instead it becomes easier to confess things to a stranger and get a good piece of advice. 

#Staystrong

One is greater than zero.

This blog is especially for youtubers who have started making their own videos about which they are passionate off or maybe advertising. Youtube is a great platform to use it in an useful purpose but mostly people do end up after few days or few weeks and stop making their videos. 

I wanna tell you, if you are one among those people who has just started making videos and not getting the expected output, so this post goes for you. For getting the start you have to be in track for months, years then you can start expecting some results. Every view on your video matters, every single view should matter to you, this is the way its grows up. Nothing comes in an overnight journey. It takes a lot of  hardwork, passion, dedication and patience to grow up to that level which you expect at the starting time. No youtuber got lucky or got famous in an overnight journey, there is a lot of hardwork and patience behind that. No business gets set up within weeks, it takes years of practice to reach upto that level. Even if your video hits only a single view, work hard and be dedicated for the second one and if the view is more than one then it’s a real progress. Keep continuing the work passionately not for days or weeks, try it out year after year then you get to realise the real progress. Your every viewer of your video should matter to you, not the negative comments in the comment section.

Do remember- If you are following your passion, you have to be 💯% dedicated to make things work out.

#midnightstories 

Cutting off people

‘Removing toxic waste from life!!’

There are times in life when you really feel like losing some people in life because it will be more comfortable for you. Cutting off people for one person is not that easy too, there are mixed emotions running out through out your mind. Before cutting off a person from life one always think not twice but ten times -Is it that necessary to lose him?
Somehow one must learn to leave people not just because of their mistakes but because of their true character. Especially some people don’t deserve to stay in your life because they were a waste of time then and even now. You really want a reality check of how good your accompany is, when you go through your worst time just remember how many people helped and how many people so called ‘friends’ left you.

Its just a matter of time when people will start showing their true colours. Some people even just act to stay in touch with you and if they fail they have an excuse ready. Sometimes people are better when they wear a mask!

Everyman for himself

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Does taking a stand affects the world?

Taking a stand for yourself is a good thing but for the rest of the world its being selfish! Sometimes you think taking a stand for others will make things better but people misunderstand it as if like interfering in other’s life. For different people it matters differently. Taking a stand for something doesn’t include you in the majority, it should matter to you only. Taking a stand for yourself is necessary but taking a stand for others is a great thing which actually shouldn’t matter what people might think of you. If we live our lives according to people’s choice you would end up kissing people’s ass everyday.

I personally take a stand where I think I should, I don’t care what people might think of me or end up being my enemies. It doesn’t mean I am always right.

Sometimes people will judge you for taking a stand, they will eventually try to make you feel you are absolutely wrong but that doesn’t mean you should give up taking a stand. It shouldn’t matter you unless you feel you are doing something wrong! That’s how life goes on, even if you take a stand people will abuse you, try their level best to insult you but don’t give up your good habit which every person doesn’t have.

#takestands

Lost Identity

‘I don’t know who I am’ :-
By listed counsellor

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Sometimes in life, you really come at a point where you actually feel that you have lost your identity. You really can’t decide what is actually right and wrong, things become really worse, you lose your mental stability, you are not in condition to make any decision. You really start acting in that way which makes you safe and comfortable in any condition. The worst part is you really start doubting your character. Unless and until you have a strong personality, things won’t turn out to be like this. You start believing that you should have that kind of personality which attracts people so that people start liking you even though you have a smile on your face but you feel lucky that you have too many people to kiss your ass.

The best way to attract people is to start kissing their ass or don’t take a stand. At this stage you don’t wanna take a stand because you can’t decide who really you are. Your lost personality may be advantage for many people but it is the biggest poison for yourself.

Neglect people who affect you in life!
#life

Excuses & Success cannot go hand in hand.

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‘Everything you want is on the other side of fear’ – George Addair

There are times when you really wanna do a thing but you get stuck up in path, the barrier may be a big one and may be a small one, well it depends on how you see it. Barriers are common in life in whichever field you may go, whichever thing you are passionate for.
I have seen people who are actually my friends who didn’t had money for basic education, they took help from their relatives for their financial condition and the best part is, they are doing quite excellent and even earning side by side.

I won’t say money isn’t a big issue but it depends on how much dedicated you are towards your goal and reaching your destination. Sometimes you have to choose an untravelled path to reach your destination. If you choose a path which is less crowded you will face the uncommon problems which most of the people can’t help you in solving your problems, this doesn’t mean you give up that goal and start choosing the field for which you are not that passionate.

Well I remember that time when I chose an untravelled path for which I eventually worked hard day & night. I remember when people enjoyed, went for parties and I was still working to reach towards my goal!! When you work hard on your passionate thing, you would eventually enjoy the pain in the work! And things will give positive results for sure!!

When one gives an excuse you will always have a reason behind your failure!

Giving up should never be an option.
#dontgiveup

 

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